GenoPro Newsletter - June 2007

Understanding Triangles in Families

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Understanding Triangles in Families

By Laura M. Benton, from the Multicultural Family Institute.

According to family therapist Murray Bowen, the two-person relationship is the basic unit of any emotional system. However, the two-person system is an unstable system in the sense that, under stress, it tends to draw in a third to stabilize, creating a three-person system of two-against-one, or two-helping-one. When the anxiety gets high enough in any one triangle, it spills over into other triangles, spreading further and further into the whole family system.” Thus, triangles form when discomfort in a two-person relationship runs high and expands into other relationships in the family, binding family members into a series of repetitive interactions and roles. These interactions can develop into problematic behavior patterns in the unwitting participants of the triangle.

When there is discord between two people, they commonly attempt to alleviate the discomfort by forming a triangle with a third. Families repeat themselves. According to Monica McGoldrick in the upcoming third edition of her book on Genograms (W.W. Norton, 2007), “What happens in one generation will often repeat itself in the next; that is, the same issues tend to be played out from generation to generation, though the actual behavior may take a variety of forms….[and] relationship patterns in previous generations may provide implicit models for family functioning in the next generation. On the genogram, we explore patterns of functioning, relationship, and structure that continue or alternate from one generation to the next.”

“Using a genogram enables us to gain insight into intense familial relationships

Using a genogram enables us to gain insight into intense familial relationships, and “given the family’s structure and position in the life cycle, to hypothesize about the important relationships and boundary patterns of that family. Understanding triangular patterns where two family members join against a third is essential in understanding family relationships. ‘Detriangling’ is an important process through which family members free themselves from rigid triangular patterns.” (Genograms 3rd ed, Ch.1) The presence of relationship triangles can be seen in the Bush family, where family members appear to be unwittingly following the patterns of triangling of previous generations as they form their own families.

Triangles in the Bush Family

George Herbert Walker Bush and his wife Barbara had three young children (George W., age 6, Robin, age 3, and Jeb, a newborn) at the time that their middle child, Pauline Robinson Bush whom the family called Robin, was diagnosed with leukemia. Robin was named for Barbara’s mother who had been killed in a car accident (in which her husband was driving), just three months before Robin was born. The parents never told George that she was ill, though they did instruct him to stop playing with her, his major playmate, because she was becoming more frail. During Robin’s illness, both parents spent a lot of time away from their home in Midland, Texas, taking her to Memorial Sloan Kettering hospital in New York, where George’s uncle, was a doctor. Robin was given treatments there and her parents stayed in the uncle’s apartment. Tragically, despite the intense treatment, Robin died two months before her fourth birthday. During her illness, George W. and Jeb, as often happens with siblings when parents must take care of one child who is very ill, were left home to be cared for by neighbors and extended family (Kelley, 131).

 

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Video Tutorials

Video: Single Parent Raising the Children

In this video, the user should learn: 

  1. Create a simple family with two children using the family wizard .
  2. Add a household to indicate which family members live together.
  3. Add a cut-off relationship between the parents, and a distant relationship between the father and his children.
  4. Set the parent union as divorced.
  5. Hide and display all emotional relationships.

Video: Single Mother


Video: Adoption and Foster Child

In this video, the user should learn: 

  1. Create a biological family using the family wizard .
  2. Set both biological parents as deceased.
  3. Add adoptive parents to the surviving child.
  4. Add a foster child to the adoptive family.

Video: Adoption and Foster Child


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